The other day I was walking along with a colleague talking about babies following the 23 week scan we had. If you didn’t know, its at this scan that you can find out what the sex of the baby is. We chose not to, apparently Louisa likes surprises. Anyway, my colleague was sharing me his experience of having his child. We were walking and talking and stopped at teh road waiting to cross. There was another man who had just joined us there as we waiting. As my collegue continued our conversation all this other guy would have heard was, “In the end it doesn’t matter about the sex, you just want it to be alright”. It’s all about the context.